Thursday, April 11, 2019

Male or Female? They decide. You live with it.

Kazimierz PuĊ‚aski (Casimir Pulaski)
In this era of the #MeToo movement and the public outcry against the crimes women have been subjected to, we are finding out more in the graves and questions about who or what is buried where. It seems that women have been found in graves purportedly to be men's graves, throwing a monkey wrench into the debate. Sometimes the women have been found to be posing as men prior to the exhumation -- at least as far as modern historians and anthropologists are concerned. Now it turns out that these women are indeed biologically women, at least as far as the historical record is concerned, and their gender muddies the waters historically. Or do they?

It seems these women are considered by our modern technology to be intersex, outwardly appearing to be men when in reality they are biologically women. It is rather a sticky wicket as far as modern society sees these things.

The issue is not only the identity of the skeleton but the public outcry that would have these intersex skeletons declared male or female and an end put to the whole question. That is not going to happen when women are denied their proper place in history (at least in the case of women being exhumed and found to be Viking warriors.) Will this too become a sticky wicket because the exhumed body appears to be female or the person who was interred passed as male though s/he is being considered intersex -- neither one or the other or both male and female in one body?

There are those, like talk host, Ben Shapiro, talks about how men and women are biologically determined and speaks out about blurring the gender lines. he forgets that all through history there have been men posing as women and vice versa and that is endemic throughout history. This gender fluidity is not new but has been around since the beginning of time. It seems that man-made gods do make mistakes -- or so it seems when intersex skeletons shatter our certainty about the factual evidence when male graves are exhumed and the male turns out to be female, as in the case of Casimir Pulaski the Polish soldier who fought in the American Revolution and is the father of the American cavalry, except that Kasmierz Pulaski's grave shows a female was buried instead of Casimir.

The point is that Casimir lived his life as a male, appeared to be a male, but was actually intersex, having the features of male and female. He had the soft features of femininity but had a mustache and male pattern baldness and his skeleton was definitely female. Casimir who has a holiday in his honor in Illinois and Chicago specifically lived his/her life as a male and is remembered for his exploits as an officer in Washington's army. No one questioned his gender or his identity as he was purportedly a male -- or at least posing as a male, specifically a male officer. He passed for a male, identified as a male, and was buried with honors as a revolutionary war hero, a male. It wasn't until now when his grave has been exhumed that his skeleton is definitely female. There's the rub.

There really is no issue, not in modern times, when the public at large accepts sexual reassignment was the father of the cavalry) the cavalry, and was buried with honors. That his skeleton proves him to be otherwise than he saw himself and passed for male doesn't matter. He chose his gender and lived his life as a man. He is who and what he said he was and his female skeleton does not change that at all.
Female Viking?
A 19th-century illustration of the contents of the tomb, which was quickly
identified after its discovery as that of a high-ranking warrior.CreditCredit
Evald Hansen/The Swedish History Museum
 

Unlike modern times, a man passing for a woman or vice versa is something we expect and seldom say anything. This is not someone who is a female, decidedly so, who has chosen to take hormones and has had the surgery to become a male, but someone whose gender is considered intersex, having the features of a man, dressing as a man, and being buried as a man being found to be a female.

This is not one of those cases. This is a biological anomaly that has been discovered long after the fact and does not fit in with the male/female dichotomy of the past. Most likely, his parents didn't bat an eye at their son being intersex and accepted him as he was. He earned honors and excelled at being a soldier, fighting in the Revolutionary War, earning honors as a horseman, being so good at it that he created (surgery as normal, de rigueur.)

Would liberals, or others so inclined, change the history to favor the female skeleton found in his grave or will we simply let it go and let him be who and what he decided to be? I think it is possible that though we can change the physical appearance of a man to be a woman or vice versa, we should let history decide what had already been decided. We should accept Casimir Pulaski as a male and let history show him as a male, reserving our opinions to ourselves. What does it matter that Casimir was intersexed, both male and female, and let history remain as it was and is forever?

In a sense, Casimir Pulaski is a genetic oddity and there are many such genetic oddities that have been and always will be. Liberals can have this one since Casimir and his parents decided how to deal with his intersexuality and call him male. No one needs to change anything, just live with the knowledge as a fact we found out long after it mattered to him and his family. Nothing will be harmed nor should it be. Nor should it matter to historians, anthropologists, and #MeToo proponents that sometimes gender doesn't matter. It's all about who and what the person was when they were alive, not now that anthropologists and historians have discovered the world is far more complex and interesting than it originally was.

The same is true of whether or not women were Viking warriors. No doubt, some of them were also intersex and their original gender matters only to nitpickers now that their skeletons have been exhumed and what we thought we would find turns out to be different than we originally expected to find. If a skeleton turns out to be male or female, the fact remains that during their lives they were who and what they were and we cannot change the past nor can we predict the future. Let them be and move on. Celebrate what they achieved and do not seek to tack a gender to their exploits or use them to further your gender cause now or ever.

Sometimes people choose to be inside and their appearance to the world at large should allow them to be what they feel they are and the manner they wish to be seen. Gender is fluid and we have reached the point where a person can choose to be whatever gender they decide. We have the surgical techniques to reshape their outward form to coincide with their inner truth and accept them as they are or as they wish to be. That is all and all about it. They decide how they wish to appear and we should applaud them for their deeds and exploits and not pin them to whatever makes US happy when it is the person's desires and wishes that are paramount. That is all that matters.

That is all. Disperse.

Wednesday, April 10, 2019

Disowned is not the end

Over forty years ago, Mom threatened to disown me if I joined the military. She said the only women who went into the military were tramps, whores, prostitutes, and basically fallen women. I wanted to be part of the family and the idea of being disowned was frightening to me. I feared being without family and so I backed off and decided against joining the military -- any military service. I didn't want to be a fallen woman.

I didn't realize that Mom was rigid and prejudiced and I didn't realize that she was playing me. I didn't realize that until after I had given up my dreams of being an Air Force pilot or joining the military -- any military branch. I didn't want to be disowned.

Forty years later, I have returned to Ohio (something I swore I would never do as long as Mom was alive -- she died six years ago) and my siblings have disowned me. They claim they disowned me because of my writing (about them). I have been back in Ohio for over a year and I have been unemployed during that time, counting on my job, which was a mistake since all my years of work have been for naught. The thing is that though I am still unemployed, I have gone to college and have decided to change my future for one that has a longer shelf life. My job, over thirty years of doing medical transcription, has been a bust. I could return to medical transcription if I wanted to continue being paid less than what I earned as a novice 33 years ago, but I have decided to pursue another career, one that will pay me better and help me survive and thrive in my senior years. I should have worked for the state as my siblings have done, but I wanted to make my own life. It didn't turn out well because I planned on a much different life. I have my social security income, which isn't much. I should have opted for a military career, told my mom to go pound sand, and become a fallen woman, with a career and a future, and become what she considered a fallen woman.

That was then and this is now. I am still disowned and I continue to write and I will write what comes to me and what I disgorge onto the virtual page (like here) or onto paper. I will continue to be what and who I have always been. I have even returned to art, picking up my drawing skills and improving on them, adding depth and climbing up the hilly path to the future. Life gives and life takes away and that is life. Since I'm still breathing and kicking, I will continue to forge ahead, get my college degree, pick up my art, and continue to write. I may one day write and sell more books, write speeches, and write about my life no matter who buys my books or not. I will continue to forge ahead on the path as it is laid out for me.

That may include politics. That may also include teaching. That may include whatever the heck I want to do and I will succeed -- with or without my family. I am adaptable, but I seem to have forgotten that -- until now. I will continue to adapt and forge ahead until the end -- when I'm 150 years old -- or older -- without the support of my family who has disowned me for speaking and writing my truth. As I said, I forgot but I remember that I am adaptable.

That is all. Disperse.

Sunday, April 07, 2019

Getting Trumped

The Democrats have impeachment on their minds and have had since Trump beat Hillary and became the POTUS. Even with Mueller and his investigative team returning with no collusion, the Democrats are still beating the impeach Trump drum and beating their breasts. They are really pissed. So were the Republicans when Obama was POTUS for two terms, and they talked about impeachment endlessly and did nothing. NOTHING. It was all talk because the Republicans did not have a leg to stand on -- or so they said.

The real problem was -- and still is -- that there is no impeachable offense where Trump is concerned. At least that is what Mueller's report says -- no collusion and no impeachable offense. Keep beating that impeachment drum, Rep. Maxine Waters, and you will get just as far as the Republicans did when they were beating the impeachment drum for Obama over his illegitimacy as POTUS since he was born in Kenya. Got that?

The Republicans knew in their heart of hearts that Obama was not impeachable for his Kenyan birthplace because Obama wasn't born in Kenya. but his putative father was born in Kenya. Got that? No, Obama wasn't born in Kenya and his putative father was NOT Barack Obama, Sr. Obama was born the year before in Washington state. Luckily (or unluckily -- pick your own) Obama was not born of the Kenyan student with whom Stanley Ann Dunham had chosen for her baby daddy. She was already pregnant with her illegitimate son to be named Barack Obama after her chosen baby daddy, Barack Obama, Sr. Barack Obama, Jr., called Barry thereafter since Dunham had already chosen her baby daddy to hide the fact that she was already pregnant with Malcolm X's illegitimate offspring, something Obama, Sr. didn't realize since he was drunk most of the time (Dunham probably kept him drunk to keep from noticing her swelling belly) or maybe she didn't need to keep Obama, Sr. drunk since she had not hooked up with him and pretended to get pregnant by Obama, Sr. Or maybe this is all a fantasy written by a fanciful writer like me. OR NOT.

 Anyway, however it happened in real life, the lie went on as Dunham planned it and we, the people, had to live with it thereafter -- like the lie that Barry was a homosexual and married to a woman and had two daughters and went to Wright's church for 20 years without once suspecting he was committing political suicide by listening to Rev. Joshua Wright's Malcolm X inspired pulpit rants against the USA and the black slaves who had Plymouth Rock fall on top of them. Wright and Obama knew they couldn't come out in public and Wright might have to agree to have Obama publicly run over him with the bus while Wright laid down in the street in front of the bus, back up, and run over him again and again once Obama sold his HOPE  AND CHANGE to the clueless masses. Wright was perfectly willing to take the hit and keep his mouth shut once Obama was in office as the first black president. Too bad the masses don't realize that Obama was a native son, born of their own Malcolm
X and born in Washington state and not in Kenya. One more lie with which to get comfortable among the lies and US Constitution trampling that Barry did during his tenure in the Oval Office in the White House. Democrats were all willing to follow Barry into the fires of Hell, but the Republicans were going to push back and impeach the illegitimate POTUS. TAke that gullible and starry-eyed masses.

You have been smacked in the face. You could point to the present POTUS, Donald J. Trump, and scream until you're blue in the face, but you've been had and the Democrats are still screaming impeachment as you screamed impeachment and did nothing while Barry stuck it to you. Sorry, Democrats. Not even with your virulent witch hunt for Trump's scalp on collusion, a collusion that Obama and the Clintons and the gullible Democrats dreamed up to get rid of Trump, take that! You got us and now we got you back. Trump is the reality Democrats have to suck on now that the pendulum has swung back for Obama's illegitimate presidency. I think it was too much to hide the truth and keep lying to the American people a little bit too long to swallow Obama's second term in the wake of Hillary's perfidy and the whitewashing that Comey did for her with his FBI investigation and his lies and payoff. Too much Clinton, too much Hillary, and too much Obama lying to keep swallowing when the country is gagging on all of the Democratic shindigs too close together. We, the American people, could swallow Obama if you had made his homosexuality public or copped to his actual birthplace a year earlier or not being born of Obama, Sr. but of native son Malcolm X. But you had to force feed the long con Dunham dreamed up and sold to her illegitimate offspring by continuing the lie about Obama, Sr. and the Russia connection earlier. But you had to keep lying and keep those lawyers running around the country to hide the truth about Barry's Kenyan birth. It's like an inveterate gambler who keeps pushing his/her luck until it blows up in his/her face.

The result is President Donald Trump as a result. Too bad Trump is not an European plant, but an American born president who did not collude with Russia. You might have had it better if Hillary hadn't kept her private server in her downstairs bathroom and tried to hide her perfidy. You might have been able to get by with it, but not after eight years of Obama and the coverup over Bengazi won you the second term you had to have. Like a spider weaving its web and with Comey's assistance and the lie upon lie upon lie that you continued to pile up like a tangled spiderweb, you were on borrowed time and piling up too many webs to ever get clear of it to put Hillary over, even with Barry's help. Maybe Michelle was just too much too much on top of Hillary's greed and the vaunted Clinton hubris to put it over. You had to get caught up in pushing the boat too far out with holds in the hull. You got Trump. Yell impeachment all you want, but you should have chosen an impeachable offense not the fake collusion lie you've been selling in your greed and hubris. You got stung. Sit it out and hope you can come up with something better to beat Trump at the polls the next election.

I'm not a Trump fan, but I realize that the circus clown has done a good job and has delivered far more than Barry's hope and change he promised for eight years while he shredded the US Constitution and trampled it under his expensive shoes. Good dressing and calm demeanor will get you only so far. Trump is a businessman and he is what we got in the aftermath of Barry and Hillary's hubris. Like I said, truth is better by far and you don't end up being greedy and full of hubris and get Trump as a reward. You got away with Bengazi and the private server for Hillary in her basement bathroom. You got away with two terms for Barry with his overweaning pride and hubris and his lies, so put up with Trump's tweets and put up a Democrat that isn't going to keep up the lie of climate change in the wake of the truth. You can only lie for so long before you get trumped

That is all. Disperse.